Wednesday, September 30, 2009

People can change our lives(example essay)

People Can Change Our Lives
As I sat in my room on a rainy day I began to analyze the concepts of life. I thought to myself that the life I am living I don’t want to live it for the rest of my life. I wanted a change; I no longer wanted to party, drink, or associate with the wrong crowd anymore. I wanted to feel a newness of life. As if I was buying my first brand new car and had the opportunity to pull my own tag off of it. People can have a great influence on others lives; it is up to that individual whether to let it be a good or bad influence. I choose to let my influence be great.
Two lonely years had passed by, that I had abandoned my best friend. Quite some time after that we would meet and discuss each other’s life, but after that we wouldn’t hear from each other until months later. One day I began to cry like a spanked baby as I sat there and realized that I was not abandoning a good friend, but I also abandoning myself for the things he could have helped me with. I then realized that I had to rebuild our relationship.
We walked along the beach as the wind embraced my body. We began to discuss the matter and decide how we could help each other instead of tarring each apart. We had been apart for so long that when we would be to together he seemed so different. I was puzzled in the back of my head and keep wondering what it so different about him. So I said “Tim what is it so great about you now that I have never noticed before. He replied saying “I decided to give my life to Christ” since then he changed my life forever. Every moment we spent together I would observe him; until one day I said to myself I want to feel that experience just like him. If being with Christ could make someone feel so wonderful I wanted him too. So when I shared with him how watching him; inspired me to change my lifestyle he was astonished. Change helped me turn from my old ways and look forward to the things life had to offer.
Now I feel as if I have been reborn again. The ways I use to think and deal with life’s obstacles are from a different perspective now. I have been living for Christ for almost three years now, and it is great. I am very grateful for having someone to guide me in my troubled times. My change has made me into a greater woman today; I also know how to be a great mentor of those who need the same courage. The life you have started for yourself can be reversed. So when help is available received it and accept the change it brings in life.
Sometimes it takes the help of others to help people notice the opportunity the can have also. To change is to become transformed and converted. Until it becomes a heart’s desire it can only be fulfilled, when that individual really wants it for themselves. “Each problem has hidden in it an opportunity so powerful that it literally dwarfs the problem. The greatest success stories were created by people who recognized a problem and turned it into an opportunity.”

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

SAD

WELL THE TIME IS HERE MY BEST FRIEND IS GETTING READY TO DEPART FROM ME. SATURDAY WE THROUGH HIM A PARTY, BUT THAT NIGHT IT TURNED IN TO SADNESS FOR ME. I HAD A BREAK DOWN RIGHT IN FRONT OF HIM AFTER THE DAY WAS OVER. WE TALKED FOR HOURS AND LAUGHED AT ALL THE GOOD AND BAD TIMES WE SHARED. I'M REALLY GOING TO MISS HIM EVEN THOUGH HE IS JUST GOING TO BE GONE FOR A COUPLE OF MONTHS IT SEEMS LIKE FOREVER.BUT I KNOW THAT GOD IS GOING TO HELP ME COPE WITH IT. I WISH HIM THE BEST AND PRAY THAT GOD PROTECT HIM TO AND FROM HIS DESTINATION. CAN'T WAIT TO HE COMES BACK HOME I KNOW I WILL BE FILLED WITH SO MUCH JOY.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Confused

RIGHT NOW I HAVE NO CLUE OF WHAT TO WRITE ABOUT IT SEEM LIKE THIS WAS THE HARDEST ESSAY FOR ME TO WRITE EVEN THOUGH IT SHOULD NOT BE. I THINK I HAVE SO MUCH OTHER STUFF ON MY MIND TO WHERE I JUST CANT GET ALL MY THOUGHTS TOGETHER. I'M TRYING TO STUDY FOR POLS 1101, MATH, AND PSYCH BUT I SEEM TO HAVE TROUBLE GET ENGLISH DOWN PACK. I'M NOT THE GREATEST WRITER PUT IT LIKE THIS I DON'T EVEN LIKE WRITING BECAUSE IT SEEMS LIKE I KNOW WHAT I HAVE IN MIND TO SAY BUT I JUST CANT GET IT ORGANIZE ON PAPER. SO I'M PRAYING THAT I CAN CONQUER THAT ONE DAY AND BE ABLE TO ENJOY WRITING.

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Tired

Today is just one of those day that I wish I was at home in my bed. I am very tired because yesterday I did a lot of running around instead of getting some rest on my off day. So now I am paying for it because I have to return to work today. So when I get out of class the first thing I'm going to do is go home and go to sleep before I go to work at 4. Working and going to school can be rough. That's why I am seeking a career so I want have to work myself that hard. Right now my mind is not functioning so well  so I think I'm going to end my writing now before i start writing things that doesn't make any since.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Kinds of Women

All women have their own types of style and personality regarding the way they carry themselves. The character of a woman reflects her lifestyle and the way others look at her. Women are expected to be seen and not heard; that is why the representation of them sends off an image of who they are. Women can classify themselves as being classy, seductive, and trashy.
For classy women, being well-educated and successful is what they demand highly of themselves. They do not worry so much about what others think of them because they rejoice over the accomplishments they have achieved out of life. A woman with intellect carries herself in a very proper manner if it is from the way she dress or talks. Classy women dress for success; they are very conservative and wear things such as, suits, skirts, ties, and uniforms. They speak with much knowledge and understanding and not just anything proceeds from their mouth; they talk in a very respectable language. They represent themselves through an image that has to be on point at all times because they do not want to be misleading. I consider myself as a classy woman because of the way I present myself. I like to dress nicely but not so revealing and I not only like to look good, but I also have the knowledge to follow with everything else.
Unlike classy women, seductive woman feels as if what she has can get her what she desire. Seductive women try to get things the simple way; for example, when going out looking for a job instead of them putting on a suit, they would go and find something revealing to show off what they have and think their looks can gain them success. They command a lot of attention and they will do anything to get it. Seductive women do not like to work persistent at things; they just want it to be given to them. My sister is a good example of a seductive woman. Just because she knows that she has a great body she thinks that is the solution to everything. She feels as if she goes and puts on a nice short outfit that is revealing she can have anything. They just do not have any respect for themselves because if they did they would not humiliate themselves like that.
For the last type of woman, appearance does not matter at all. Trashy women are the careless ones the women who just have no principles about themselves. Their appearance is filthy and disorganized. Trashy women have no class at all they do not care about how they present themselves to others because they feel as if that is who they are. Intelligence is the least thing on their mind; they are loud and disruptive and want to be known by everyone as “ghetto” as some would say. They try to make a scene at everything they proceed to do; they do not care about how they live or how they affect others by the way they act. That is who they are and will always be trashy women.
There are many types of women, but the way they classify themselves is horrible. Women should have much respect for themselves because if they do not how can others. However, women are not going to change their appearance from who they are. That is why they are categorized in certain groups. The way a woman illustrates herself will tell people who they really are. Women should keep in mind that they set off their own image.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

BE A GIVER

I love being able to help others that are in need; i enjoy being that shoulder for them to lean on. Yesterday God blessed me to be a blessing and I am so happy for that. Someone I really love and care about was going through a hard time so I thought about doing something for them that i have never done. So i did i took them and let them get the things they needed for their household. I was filled will so much joy just being able to do that. I not only bless people i know, but i also bless people who are strangers to me. This is the reason why i want to be successful because i want to be able to help others it's my passion. It really bothers me when i can't help those who hands are stretched out for help. So everyday I ask the Lord to help me to be able to be a blessing in someones life everyday. I don't want to have success and not be able to share it with others because it's better to give than to receive.